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Complete Guide to Reflexive Verbs in French

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2/18/2024

Introduction

Hello everyone! Today, we dive into the fascinating world of French reflexive verbs. These verbs, essential for expressing actions performed on oneself or reciprocally between several people, play a crucial role in mastering the French language. In just a few minutes, we will discover together how to identify them, conjugate them, and use them correctly in our sentences. Ready? Let's go!

What is a reflexive verb?

A reflexive verb is recognized by the presence of a reflexive pronoun that relates to the subject. These verbs generally indicate an action that the subject does to themselves, like s'habiller (to dress oneself) or se laver (to wash oneself). The structure of these verbs always includes the pronoun se in front of the infinitive.

The conjugation of reflexive verbs

Conjugating a reflexive verb requires two steps: adjusting the reflexive pronoun to the subject and conjugating the verb according to the tense. The key is to remember that the pronoun and the verb work together to reflect who is doing the action and when. The pronoun will be transformed into me, te, se, nous, vous, se according to the subject performing the action.

For example, with se réveiller (to wake up), the present tense conjugation looks like this:

Je me réveille
Tu te réveilles
Il/Elle se réveille
Nous nous réveillons
Vous vous réveillez
Ils/Elles se réveillent

If the verb starts with a vowel, the forms: s', m', t' are used. For example, the verb s'appeler (to call oneself) changes as follows:

Je m'appelle
Tu t'appelles
Elle s'appelle
Nous nous appelons
Vous vous appelez
Ils s'appellent

This change shows the adaptation of the reflexive pronoun to the subject.

It is essential to practice these structures to integrate them, remembering that the reflexive pronoun must always match the subject and that the verb is conjugated like normal verbs.

Differentiating between normal verbs and reflexive verbs

Reflexive verbs are distinguished from normal verbs by the action being directed towards the subject themselves or among subjects in the case of reciprocal actions. Take the verb laver as an example. In its normal form, the action is directed towards an external object:

Je lave la voiture (I wash the car)

As a reflexive verb, the action is directed towards the subject themselves:

Je me lave (I wash myself)

In both cases, it is clarified here whether the action affects the subject or another object/individual.

Another use is in the case of a reciprocal action:

Nous nous parlons (We talk to each other)

Here, the action of speaking is shared between the subjects, highlighting mutual interaction.

Negation with reflexive verbs

The formation of negation with reflexive verbs follows a specific structure, where the placement of "ne" and "pas" frames the pronoun and the verb. This construction allows expressing the negation of the action.

Je ne me lève pas à 7 heures (I do not get up at 7 o'clock).

Il ne se souvient pas de moi (He doesn't remember me).

This structure is important for correctly negating a reflexive action in French, and it is constructed like this across all verbal tenses.

the teacher

1) Reflexive verbs are verbs used with a reflexive pronoun that relates to the subject, indicating an action performed on oneself or a reciprocal action between subjects.
2) The conjugation of these verbs involves adjusting the reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nous, vous, se) according to the subject, as well as the conjugation of the verb itself according to the tense.
3) It is essential to distinguish reflexive verbs from normal verbs, the latter not involving an action on the subject. For example, laver can be used in a normal way (Je lave la voiture) or reflexively (Je me lave).
4) Negation with reflexive verbs follows a specific structure, where ne precedes the reflexive pronoun and pas follows the verb (Je ne me lève pas à 7 heures).

Practical Exercise

Put into practice what you have learned about reflexive verbs with this exercise. It's your turn 😉

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Grammatical tenses with reflexive verbs

Reflexive verbs are conjugated in different tenses, requiring the adaptation of the reflexive pronoun and the appropriate conjugation of the verb. Three tenses are particularly important:

The present: As seen previously, the reflexive pronoun adapts to the subject, and the verb is conjugated accordingly.

The past perfect: Uses the auxiliary être and the past participle must agree in gender and number with the subject. Example:

Elle s'est levée (She got up).

The near future: Consists of the auxiliary aller in the present tense followed by the reflexive pronoun and the infinitive of the verb. Example: (I am going to wash myself).

Je vais me laver

These examples underline the importance of the agreement between the reflexive pronoun, the verb, and the tense used.

List of common reflexive verbs

Here is a selection of frequently used reflexive verbs in French. This list is not exhaustive, but it offers a good starting point for practicing and integrating these verbs into your daily routine.

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se lever
to get up
se laver
to wash oneself
s'habiller
to dress oneself
se coucher
to go to bed
se réveiller
to wake up
s'asseoir
to sit down
se rappeler
to remember
se dépêcher
to hurry
se détendre
to relax
s'excuser
to apologize
se promener
to take a walk
s'endormir
to fall asleep
se sentir
to feel
se rencontrer
to meet each other
se dire
to tell each other
se passer
to happen
se voir
to see each other

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Conclusion

Mastering reflexive verbs is essential for expressing yourself accurately and elegantly in French. This lesson has guided you through the basics, conjugation, negation, and even offered a handy list of verbs to integrate into your daily practice. You have everything you need at your disposal, so get to work! 😊

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